Studies have shown that it is nearly impossible for a woman to have any form of intimacy without there being an emotional connection.
Although there are times where pure carnal instincts come into play, more often than not, a woman tends to give herself because she is seeking attachment, fulfilment or pleasure.
Dating comes with a great deal of pressure in itself.
Trying to get to know someone, make a good first impression and play it cool all at the same time can bring anxiety and stress.
How far is too far when you are out on a first date with your potential plus one?
On a first date or a first encounter with someone, the objective is usually to get to know someone better which will hopefully lead to a second date.
Despite what Sex and the City episodes told us over the years, generally an afternoon coffee date does not end up with an impromptu sex fest.
However, when a first date takes place at night, over drinks or at a nightclub, there is the potential for a casual encounter to turn into much more.
When the mood strikes and inhibititions are low, it's easy for a goodnight peck on the cheek to develop into a trip around the proverbial sex bases.
Unless your objective is a one night stand, it's better to err on the side of slow and steady than quick and dirty.