The realities of the different challenges faced by mothers whether married, divorced, separated, singles daily differs a lot.
Marriage is like a religion to most Nigerian women, they start singing marriage tune as soon as they enter puberty/uni so any unattached +40 year old woman out there would probably be living in one of 'em churches cos of peer/family pressures.
Besides, don't you just wanna get laid so why complicate things Mr?
Where to meet them cant b the church; eventhough dem full deeper life & MFM etc ( as Jesus bride;;; i am marry to Jesus), why not try badoo.com; u will see some there; i dont knw if they are fake; and hope u are not looking 4 sugar mummy like u saidas for me i think our culture is the biggest problem for these set of persons, i onced imagine a woman lets 45-55yrs; no husband; is it her fault that no one decided to settle with her, ?
back in the US; i just visit either the gym; bars (on wkend); travelling ( airplane); neighbourhood or dating sites, and i am hooked up, most times with bold intelligent women in mid & late 40s, working class, not parasites But here; it has been very difficult finding any ( am not talking abt sugar mummy or gold digger but jst 4 mutual benefits & friendship)so if u have any place in mind plz post it, PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZI DONT WANT AGENT (because i am not looking for sugar mummy, i have my money, )i knw Nigerians are very religious people; so are the females, wouldnt they tell one that its a sin for a younger man to date an older women, also do u want the woman or her pastor to call me AGENT OF THE DEVIL, u knw how they think some times!!!!!!!!!!!
and also wouldnt the younger church ladies say that one is digging one`s grave, "IT WAS WHEN I CAME BACK TO NIGERIA; THAT I HEARD THAT DATING AN OLDER WOMAN; THE MAN IS DIGGING HIS GRAVE"Superstition abi But Oga, seems like you've been in naija for the past few years so how come you still haven't been able to master the act of wooing?
topic=557590.msg7221187#msg7221187Have you buried your head too deep in patronising s3x workers that you now don't know where or how to get a real girl on the street et al?
topic=823363.msg9748879#msg9748879matured single ladies in this country within the age bracket u mentioned, i swear u no fit see.
Her family will not let her rest, the only song they will be singing for her is marriage.
The Single matured ladies u can find re celebrities and those spoilt rich men daughters that don't have steady relationship Where else do you expect to find an unattached +40 year old woman?