Quality of Suggested Matches Stephanie got more slightly better looking matches than I did.
On the flipside, men are spurred into action when presented with a non-Black face…
As a whole, Stephanie’s online dating experience felt better than mine, but only marginally so.
At the end of it all, of the men who had initiated some form of interaction, there wasn’t a single guy whom I would have picked for a date.
America is obsessed with the concept of black women’s unloveability.
Head over to Google news and type in “black women” and “marriage” and you’ll be hit with a barrage of over-analysis on why no one wants us for marriage, in online dating, anywhere — and this fascination is strange seeing that black women are a mere 6% of the American population.
Madame Noire writer Christine Mwaturura came up with the ingenious plan of changing her race on a dating site to see exactly what life is like on the other side.I created Online Stephanie to see if the grass is greener on the other side of the racial divide.Stephanie is an unassuming looking, moderately attractive white woman with dark brown hair and a warm smile. winks, photo likes, and favorites) Stephanie received more interactions than I did on a per week basis.Her personality and hobbies are exactly identical to mine: she listens to Beyoncé, practices yoga and is a self-described health enthusiast. Number of Profile Views Stephanie got 27 views in one week. High-Grade Interactions Received (email) Stephanie received 5 emails in one week compared to my abysmal 1 email per week.She’s looking for the same type of guy as me: at least 5’9”, athletic build, college educated with no kids. Quality of Emails Stephanie’s in-mail messages were generally crafted better.So according to the “common knowledge” that black women are virtually ignored on dating sites, Mwtururua should have been flooded with a barrage of eligible bachelors and marriage proposals, right? Men would actually take the time to write an entire personalized paragraph to introduce themselves, whereas a good portion of my in-mail was incoherent gibberish like: “How you are beautiful eyes and your beauty beloved charming you the most beautiful angel.” Say what?