Dating a married man aka being the other woman is one of the hardest thing in the world.
I put up with every single one of the traditional married man excuse such as 'It's hard to just leave my marriage', 'if I easily leave my current marriage you will think bad of me - but I'll do it sometime since you're so special'...'I'm not in love with my wife..we're heading for separation SOON'..
After 2 more years I started to regain a little of my brain consciousness.
I started to realise that he was a married man, a cheating husband! Even so, I couldn't let go of him because I thought I loved him to the max.
He even let me believe that he was my soulmate and more sweet words started to come out of his mouth.
So I decided to be his 'friend' and didn't want to take things further than that.
Oh come on, I don't think I could even think straight in the first place...
Finally, I took all my courage together, bought a few of the break up books available on the market (My favourite til this day: "It's called a break up because it's broken by Greg and Amiira Behrendt"), silently making a plan in my head to stop having a relationship with a married man.
I knew that even if losing him would cause a pain so great, staying with him was wasting my heart, emotion, and time.
So I had to do what's good and I had to get out of it altogether.
Okay, let me share what I did and what steps you can take to stop dealing with a cheating husband and stop dating a married man: 1. The best and fastest way to forget him is to cut contacts (Physically first, emotionally comes later).
Tell him "Action speaks louder than words" and if he loves you he should want to make you happy. I'm going to expand on this because I know it's easier said than done.