Yes, people do have lives and some people just have a better way of keeping themselves busy.
I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. We’ve both been loving, attentive, kind and considerate.
Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few months of long-distance relationship with visits intermittent. Two things happened when I got here, however, which have me thinking. First, when I arrived I was very ill with a horrible cold.
Second, a few days ago while he was on skype with his dad, a text-message came to him on the phone. We hadn’t been private about these things in the past at all.
The text was from his ex-girlfriend arranging to meet him for lunch on Friday.
I made the additional mistake of scrolling back and then realised they’Well, I wrote a note saying “I’m sorry I invaded your privacy.
Are you convinced that it’s too late to get your ex back?
I know how it feels, when all evidence points to the sign that they are just OVER you, you just feel like giving up.
Giving up is necessary sometimes, and I certainly don’t want you to keep chasing after someone who really IS over you.
There are some rare situations though where an ex will ACT as if they’re over you BUT they still DO things that makes you wonder “Why does he still do this if he doesn’t care anymore?
” or “Why is she still calling me for no reason at all? When your ex’s actions don’t quite seem to make sense!?
There is more going on than you may think and it may even SHOCK you when you find out the truth.
Here I explain exactly what are the SIGNS to watch out for when an ex is still not over you, still CARES and may even WANT YOU BACK.
If you’re not recognizing any of these signs, don’t worry, it could be anything from being TOO soon after the break up OR your ex is busy with other things!