We’re running our online dating profile contest right now.
I have seen, analyzed, and evaluated hundreds of men’s online dating profiles.
The ones that work often follow a particular flow, as do the ones that in your profile.
I have said before, and will say again, that about 80% of your online dating profile success will actually be with your photos, not what you write in your profile.
However, 20% is still 20%, and I have indeed worked with very good-looking guys who had crappy results from online dating because their profiles were way off.
That being said, it’s still very true that if you’re gorgeous, what you write in your profile suddenly becomes less important.
Since most men reading these words are gorgeous (I’m certainly not), this is irrelevant. Powerful Template 1: The Outcome Independent Profile This is the standard Blackdragon profile, the one I discuss in detail in my primary online dating ebook and one I’ve used many times.
It’s a profile that starts out very strong, with a very striking or unusual first sentence or paragraph.
From there, it does not follow a specific flow, but rather throws a very strong outcome independent vibe at the reader. But if you qualify, maybe you can join me.” Powerful Template 2: The Sexual Profile This template is very different from the above.
This profile is very confident, smart (but not geeky), funny (but not silly), interesting, and uses a lot of in-your-face language. It tends to work best with guys under age 35 who are not ugly (though there are certainly exceptions to both of those generalizations).
There are DHVs sprinkled throughout, and the tone of the profile is almost “jerk”. This entire profile screams sex, although indirectly so, and is designed to screen for horny, high sex drive women who are down for fast sex and/or one night stands.
It is epitomized by a post made at our forum a few years ago by Bukowski Merit.