Why don't I have access to beautiful, feminine lesbians? -Mirror Image Dear Mirror Image, At first I was a bit insulted by your letter.Go back and read it again and see if you can see why I felt that way.I can understand your frustration at not finding a woman you are compatible with, but why must you insult other lesbians in the process?
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Feminine women float your boat, and that is just fine.
But to say that butch women look and smell like men is just plain mean. It sounds to me like you are hanging out in places where dysfunctional lesbians congregate.
Yes, the lesbian bar is often a place with lots of drinking, smoking and high drama. Just because you havent found a feminine woman, doesnt mean they are not out there. Read through these comments and see how many women met their girlfriends through online dating services.
By Kathy Belge Hi, my name is Danielle and I'm very depressed and confused right now. I left my husband because I've always been attracted to women and not men.
My coming out was very hard on my family, my children and of course my husband, but I knew I had to stop living a lie and that eventually being with the woman of my dreams was all worth it.
But after five years in the lesbian community, I'm starting to regret coming out of the closet.Since I was a little girl, I've always fantasized about beautiful, feminine women (I'm feminine myself) and when I came out, I imagined that the lesbian community was filled with beautiful, attractive women.The same type of women that I see every day at work or in other social gatherings. Most feminine women I meet are either straight or bisexual and most lesbians I meet are masculine and unattractive.They are also frequently overweight (not always), makeup is like kryptonite to them, they smoke, drink too much, are frequently unfaithful and sleep with ex-girlfriends and many have weird psychological issues like violent behaviors.I'm telling myself, what's the use of having left a man to be with a bunch of women who look, act and smell like men?Gay guys have access to plenty of handsome masculine gay men who look like men. I'm convinced that there would be much more lesbians if the community was filled with beautiful women and not mullet sporting, flannel wearing, chain smoking dykes.