Do you ever obsess about whether to order dessert, buy those pricey sandals, or be totally honest on a third date?
If so, then you are already acquainted with the fear of being fat, broke & lonely.
If only we could eat less, get paid better, and be more outgoing. Our endless quest to be fit, flush, and partnered (no matter where we fall on the scale) inevitably makes us feel fat, broke & lonely.
We have two choices: give up, convinced that this is just a lifelong, losing battle, or go toe-to-toe with our negative self-image and take back our lives.
Real-life anecdotes, practical strategies, and a touch of sass make this revolutionary five-step plan a must-read.
First, Moran helps us discover the root of the symptoms.
Then we learn how to break up with fat, broke & lonely for good.
And finally, we learn how to hook up with the life of our dreams—and who doesn't want that?
“Let Victoria Moran be your personal, pocket Life Coach. ” — Vicki Robin, coauthor, Your Money or Your Life “Simple, straightforward, and the perfect antidote to the struggles we all face.” — Mariel Hemingway, author of Mariel Hemingway's Healthy Living from the Inside Out “Shines the light on pessimism and sends it scurrying back into its rat hole.” — W.
Why is it that Americans feel the need to almost apologize when they are looking for someone?
They feel the need to qualify things with statements like ‘ I am not desperate’ . Many Americans behave like if you do not have a boyfriend or girlfriend that looks like someone out of a J. If you date someone, but they are not your one and only, that is messed up.
Crew catalog, others will think there is something wrong with you. Few people have this life and if you were living it would you be happy? It is better to wait until the end of time, rather than to have a temporary boyfriend or girlfriend, especially just for ‘boom-boom’. You are distracting yourself from your real purpose of finding a mate. I think it is strange if someone says ‘I do not need someone’. If you do not need someone, you one messed up person. Do not feel the need to apologize that you are single or feel ashamed. European girls are not lonely because they are honest that they want to meet someone.
If you are not chewing the fat on the weekends with some group of friend at a clam bake watching the sun set, having dry wine and french cheese than you are not living. It does not allow you to feel the full pain of being single and lonely, therefore, push you to action. It just means you have the courage of your convictions to wait. For example, if you started to talk to these European beauties they would be probability be thanking you, if they were single.
Yes being single, lonely and depressed is a good thing. American girls, on the other hand, would give you a look like you are some freak and all kind of weird vibes after that.