Work to become the person you wish you could talk to.
When a man doesn’t chase you, he’s not ever likely to change his mind.
You can’t manipulate him into liking the person you are.
You can only get your own shit together and be on the lookout for someone who fits your new better.
In past relationships boyfriends were committed and always seemed ready to take it to the next level. Here’s the deal: Dating is a series of experiments to find out whether or not you’re ready to move into a more stable, full time relationship with the person sitting next to you. Hollywood has conditioned you to believe love is always right around the corner, but just like everything else in life finding and maintaining love is hard work. Eventually, the right guy’s going to stay interested.
I can tell you from of experience, they’re not interested anymore and it’s not because you’re a “good-time girl” or because you’re not relationship material. You cannot expect every guy you meet to fall magically in love with you.
You feel small and like you’re in high school again. The best advice I can give you is don’t worry about these guys. The spark that begins a serious relationship cannot happen with every guy you go on a date with.
Is that you or your friends deciding you’re the good-time girl? Is that how you make yourself feel better, because these guys lose interest in you? Nothing kills the joy of dating faster then being rejected.
The majority of dates are ended and blown off before they even start. The guy you have chemistry with, the guy who thinks you are absolutely amazing the way you are.
In all my years of dating, I can’t even count all the three-and-done, one-and-done and two-and-dones… : This is the guy you’ll be excited to tell your friends about.
I don’t take any of it personally and neither should you. For whatever reason, and it could be anything at all, he wasn’t feeling the connection. This is the guy you won’t want to fix because he came put together to fit you. People will stay interested when they feel you’re .
If a guy isn’t calling you back don’t let your head run away with stories. He’s worth waiting for and there is no short cut to find him except this… Don’t try to be someone else’s version of interesting.