You know I’ve really thought about whether I should even write this article. There’s nothing worse than your mum thinking you’re skanking out. Then there’s the fact that the minute you write about it people assume it’s what you do all the time.
And there is still this thing that I learnt when I was writing my dating book- in general men bring up sex early to make sure that women don't freak out, and women freak out as soon as men bring it up, so any woman talking about sex in an article is automatically thought of as "up for it" with anyone. At least no “wake up in the morning and try to chew your arm off” sex. It might not be fully inclusive, but I think it covers the top points... If you’re not feeling emotionally resilient, you’re a train wreck waiting to happen.
I’ve had friends who’ve had periods in their lives where sex is the way they band aid up their heart while it’s hemorrhaging everywhere else.
If you’re having sex with randoms, waking up, regretting it, then doing it all over again week after week, you’re not doing anything good for yourself. If you’re completely blotto, catch a taxi and go home ALONE.
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