I am currently attending college and it isn't the best place to be single. how we think of ourselves will be noted on the outside.I would like most responses to be females and just wondered why don't girls date big guys? Being overweight is a physical sign of what is going on inside your mind, not so much your body.
The truth of the matter is it didn't change after I dropped the weight. If you decide to lose the weight..it because you want to live a healthier lifestyle..because you think it will improve your love life. Before you know it, not only will you loose the weight, you will loose the negativity of all things you have allowed to hold you back. Size or looks have nothing to do with it, trust me!
What I realized was that I was the one sabotaging my dating life either by having low self esteem and going for the wrong (superficial) women. You have a hard time meeting women because you are not yet divorced. Spend the time it is going to take to become legally single enjoying your life and trying to find the confidence to meet a good woman. im a resonable looking fella myself but still have problems hooking up with women.
Its all about the confidence dude - i struggle with mine, but i dont let it allow me to jepodise my dates. Invite a gal out you really like for a drink (be confident and sincere), simple as - the next thing is going to be a 50/50 answer and that doesnt matter whether she says yes or no, because that is out of your control - and plus who cares!
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Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.I have a hard time meeting girls because of 2 things. I have been told that shyness can be a cute thing, but it is something im trying to get over.The overweight thing I know can be a big issue but I don't understand why girls don't date guys like us because we do have feelings too.I have never asked a girl out before because of the fear of not only being rejected, but also the fact that a lot of girls don't like big guys.I have also been laughed at before and it hurts knowing that you do have something to offer someone.I have been married before but even then I was asked out.