Check on the list who is currently online and just call him using Skype, MSN, ICQ or Yahoo!
Initially we had web cams, I got rid of mine, he still had his and just put it away a couple months ago (5).
I had always wondered why he kept it set up right next to his computer when we didn’t use it anymore with each other.
He had a roommate and I just figured he used it to take pics of himself for the computer.
Hmmm...secretly talking to another woman online is just "innocent flirting"? Look, just because they haven't connected physically doesn't mean they haven't connected emotionally, no matter how your dude rationalizes it. Say we do give him the benefit of the doubt and accept that these late-night IMs are harmless.
Then why didn't he tell you about them in the first place?
Hey, she knows about you; you should have known about her. You need to ask him why he feels the need to flirt with a stranger and find out what she's doing for him that you're not.
You could even look at this as an opportunity to figure out what's missing in your relationship.
In most cases, people seek out attention from the opposite sex when they're feeling unappreciated at home. Still, regardless of what his motives might be, you need to tell him to stop corresponding with her ASAP.
It makes you uncomfortable as it should and it's certainly not helping your relationship.
Hopefully, this is an isolated incident, but be firm with him for the future: Any more online escapades, and he's out.
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